Dear Beloved,
The topic is forgiveness. There is so much time wasted by holding onto grudges and bitterness. If we said to the person, " you hurt my feelings and/or you are hurting me by saying or doing this," it would be a bad moment between people and they could say sorry; resolve it and move on.
There are years that are wasted with negativity back and forth. Then that negativity is felt by those who are around and wear them down too. It is a vicious cycle that no one wants to be around. Even if the people are not yelling or physically fighting, it can spiritually be felt. Work on forgiving as quickly as possible and say how you feel in the moment. Don't lose precious moments with someone because your feelings were not voiced.
When getting to how the person hurt you, what made them mean or have malice. Were they distracted by women ( the Jezebel's and the Dalila's or both) Or distracted by the desire of chasing money? Are they more worried about a title that they will have now then they will in New Jerusalem? Or they still distracted by false doctrine and lukewarm, not seeking the truth? Is it Spiritual Attention Deficit Disorder, they are distracted by the world where they cannot focus or just selfish?
Let the pain go. Let them go and let them know you are not looking for them anymore and wait for the new man or woman. Only YAH through Yahshua can cleanse and heal him or her. Give them time with YAH and Yahshua to work through their stumbling blocks. This will take patience with an open heart and be completely forgiving when he/she comes back to you. During this time you will have to acknowledge the pain and remember how your healing process was. Don't lose your focus, work on your own relationship with YAH and Yahshua. Don't waste your time or days thinking about the pain, YAH wants you to have a happy heart! You cannot change or make him/her better; only YAH through Yahshua can do that.
During this time of waiting, ask for forgiveness from YAH through Yahshua and accept that forgiveness. You will become stronger with the power of YAH's love to keep an open heart and strong enough to help him/her with any condition they come back to you in. YAH is going to hold him/her accountable. Put yourself in his/her shoes, be gentle with understanding with him/her. Always remember love is an action and to show unconditional love. We also need to remember the greatest forgiveness of YAH sending Yahshua to die for our sins. YAH commands us to forgive. If the pain comes back up just pray for them. If it comes up every day, pray for them every day. This is an internal change, you will know by the fruit of their actions. Just wait for the new man or woman to show up.
Ephesians 4:31 ~ Let all bitterness, and wrath, and anger, and clamour, and evil speaking, be put away from you, with all malice:
2 Corinthians 10-11 ~ So that contrariwise ye ought rather to forgive him, and comfort him, lest perhaps such a one should be swallowed up with sorrow. Wherefore I beseech you that ye would confirm your love toward him.
Ephesians 5 1-2 ~ Be ye followers of YAH, as dear children: 2 And walk in love, as Yahshua also hath loved us, and hath given himself for us an offering and a sacrifice to YAH for a sweetsmelling savour.
Mark 11:25 ~ And when ye stand praying, forgive, if ye ought any: that your Father also which in heaven may forgive you your trespasses.
Matthew 18: 21-22 ~ Then came Peter to him, and said, Lord, how oft shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? till seven times? Yahshua said unto him, I say unto thee, Until seven times: but, Until seventy times seven.
1 Peter 4:8 ~ And above all things have fervent charity among yourselves: for charity shall cover the multitude of sins.
1 Corinthians 13:5 ~ Doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil;
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